Now seems like as good of a time as any to issue a reminder that no one individual person’s experiences are universal.

Just because you identified as (insert label here, usually nonbinary or aromantic or asexual because they get hit on for this the most) because someone gave you a bad definition, or because you thought you were that thing but later realized you were something else, or because you described your experiences and someone suggested that term, it does not mean that it is the fault of everyone who uses that label that that happened. Your individual experiences don’t somehow make the experiences of literally every one else who identifies with that label less real.